[mtbopfuyn]

My 13yo doesn't get on the computer.

Do you homeschool? If she's enrolled in a school outside the home, how does she do her homework? Every class mine have been in since 7th grade (and some earlier), they've had to use the computer to either do research or type their lessons.

[HOTTIEBOY]

how does she do her homework?

With a pencil and a piece of paper.

Like I said, if she wants to look up something on the net, she tells me, and I guide her to the right site. But those kids don't just walk up and turn the puter on, they ask me and I turn it on, using my password that they don't know. Even the 16yo doesn't own rights to the puter. She asks me to turn it on.