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Total vanity: What would you do?

Posted on 09/25/2006 10:29:00 AM PDT by AUJenn

This is completely a vanity, so if you are not interested, please no rude comments and just continue on by.

I have a situation that I would like some fellow freeper/conservative opinions and thoughts on. I am an adult, but I have a large family and several much-younger siblings. My youngest brother is 13 years old. He has invited me to be his friend on MySpace. (I recently joined to keep up with old college friends and occasionally use it. My site's pretty dull, haha).

However, I was browing his site and was very concerned about some of the content. There are many references to him drinking, smoking, some pretty crass language and other mature topics. I am by no means some boring prude or tattle , but I feel that he has no business being involved in some of this at 13 years old.

My thoughts are that perhaps this is a joke, or he is just trying to appear older or "cool" to other kids. Maybe it is just some kind of inside joke that I don't get. Maybe he is running with a bad crowd and has some secrets that the family is not aware of.

My brother adores my husband and they get along very well...I told my husband about this and he is concerned. My dilemma is should I bring this to my parents' attention? I feel so ridiculous as a grown woman even asking this, but I don't want to misstep here and be way off. Should my husband have a conversation with my brother about the content of the web site?

Has any fellow freeper had an issue like this? Any suggestions would be helpful.


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To: HOTTIEBOY
Of course I am not implying that the don't care.

Okay. I guess I just got confused about what you were implying, since you stated, Afterall, it seems to me, that if the parents cared, they would already know what the kid is doing".

41 posted on 09/25/2006 11:04:50 AM PDT by NittanyLion
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To leap to the conclusion that they're uncaring is not appropriate given the facts we have.

Amen.

42 posted on 09/25/2006 12:57:54 PM PDT by cgk (I don't see myself as a conservative. I see myself as a religious, right-wing, wacko extremist.)
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To: AUJenn
I cut a deal with my niece. As long as there's nothing on her page that implies she is older than she is, I don't say anything about the occasional bad language.

-Eric

43 posted on 09/27/2006 6:26:02 AM PDT by E Rocc (Myspace "Freepers" group moderator)
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