Hi Marmar!
My 'integrity' I didn't get from my Mother or my Dad. The first was a coward and the second was, well, very bad. I had to build whatever smidges I have on my own. They don't have a clue, but their daughters will know what they are, even if they think they're hiding it.
Yes, like you I am a survivor.....and I know that men of honer and integrity are few and far between, but I have met a few, it gives me hope.