Wow!We went to them because we were not old enough to get a drink in a reguler bar.I can assure you,the girl and I had some good vibes going on till her girlfriend came along.And I definately would not have offered her a ride if I knew she was gay to begin with.As far as the 'dancing'and such,who cared.I was trying to get some action,not become an activist.At the time,decorating houses was not in the cards.You may be right.You may need a gay boyfriend.
Wow. Hey dude, I hate to burst your bubble but had she been REALLY gay, she would not have been sending you good vibes. She may have been Bi but GAY? Not!
The lesbians I’ve known, as friends, co-workers and neighbors do not play with guys even for sh!ts and giggles.
Since admittedly you were just trying to get some action perhaps you read her common civility as being some sort of invitation to getting on the horizontal bop. Hey I don’t blame you; guys and even some gals are prone to this sort of misinterpretations especially when alcohol is involved.
Guy says, “Hi how are you?” Gals says, “I’m good. How are you?” Guy thinks “She wants me bad. I’m a stud,” Gal thinks, “He’s cute and so nice to say hello. I want to go shopping now. I need new shoes. Maybe he’ll ask me out, take me to a nice restaurant, and admire how great I look in my new shoes and how thin they make me look. After we’ve dated for a while and he professes his undying love for me, I’ll spend the night.” Guy says.” Hee Hee. I’m gett’n some!”
I don’t really want a gay boyfriend but until I meet the guy who responds to “hello” with something other than ” Hee Hee. I’m gett’n some!”, shopping for shoes is more appealing since I’m older, have plenty of disposable income and don’t need a “quicky” with some stud who won’t remember my name the next day.