[Caramelgal]

Wow. Hey dude, I hate to burst your bubble but had she been REALLY gay, she would not have been sending you good vibes. She may have been Bi but GAY? Not!

The lesbians I’ve known, as friends, co-workers and neighbors do not play with guys even for sh!ts and giggles.

Since admittedly you were just trying to get some action perhaps you read her common civility as being some sort of invitation to getting on the horizontal bop. Hey I don’t blame you; guys and even some gals are prone to this sort of misinterpretations especially when alcohol is involved.

Guy says, “Hi how are you?” Gals says, “I’m good. How are you?” Guy thinks “She wants me bad. I’m a stud,” Gal thinks, “He’s cute and so nice to say hello. I want to go shopping now. I need new shoes. Maybe he’ll ask me out, take me to a nice restaurant, and admire how great I look in my new shoes and how thin they make me look. After we’ve dated for a while and he professes his undying love for me, I’ll spend the night.” Guy says.” Hee Hee. I’m gett’n some!”

I don’t really want a gay boyfriend but until I meet the guy who responds to “hello” with something other than ” Hee Hee. I’m gett’n some!”, shopping for shoes is more appealing since I’m older, have plenty of disposable income and don’t need a “quicky” with some stud who won’t remember my name the next day.

[xarmydog]

Seems to me you are a very ardent supporter of the gay lifestyle.You appear to be very knowledgeable about it.You need to get out more,or try getting a date with a non-homosexual.You took a pretty simple comment and are trying to make something up that is not there.You may be well off as you profess,but it sounds like you are frustrated,My take is,when a man has a conversation with you,after five minutes,he is ready to split the scene.Your portrayal of various scenarios of what transpired is a could of, would of,whatever,maybe,etc.,doesn't make sense.Did it ever occur to you I may have been looking for female companionship?When we went to my vehicle,and prior to that,there was never any mention of sex.Those type of things,in my world,come at the appropriate time,If you read my original post,you will note she needed a ride home.P.S.Having sex in a 59 Triumph is impossible unless you are a contortionist.As far as complimenting a woman on their shoes,I do it all the time with my five year old granddaughter.She loves shoes.