Condolences, to you and SirKit, Suzi - family is family, even if they've not been as close as they could have been. And it's hard to have that feeling hanging over things, I'm sure.
Yeah, SirKit and his older brother had just talked last week about trying to re-establish a relationship with her. That's what SirKit regrets most. It hadn't been for lack of trying on their part in the past; she'd just pushed everyone away with her behavior. It was really sad, but there wasn't anything anyone could really do about it.