As long as the woman feels safe all around, I'm sure you could make it work. It could be a quite place. It doesn't have to be noisy. It could even be dark and romantic.
Good points - I think the important thing is finding a place where both of us can feel that we will be "our best" and yet neither of us feels insecure. In her case, the insecurity would come from wondering whether I might be up to something wrong. In my case, the insecurity would come from wondering whether she might falsely accuse me of something wrong.
Bill