It sounds like you had jealousy at your place also.
You are not the first person to say that. Interesting, but I never imagined that could be the case.
Well, you are an attractive woman & have a great personality. Some women have a hard time being a team with women who are like you. It is very sad. They will find "other things" to jump on but bottom line is they resent you for your good traits - again a lot of this sort of thing is subconscious.
Hey, I am going to get my bath & sleep. Might do one refresh before I find Cali & get to sleep