What YOU seem to not realize is that the above is said only jokingly and most of us really are appalled at teachers who behave that way, male or female. This so-called "professional" was being quite serious when he made his comments.
But you know as well as I do that whenever a female teacher takes advantage of a boy, we will have a lot of comments here saying he was lucky. Personally, I don't think all of them are joking, but that's another matter.
I'm just pointing out that on the one hand we have widespread joking about lucky victims of sexual assault and on the other hand, we have a scholarly expert saying that the retarded girl probably enjoyed the assault.
Yeah, there's a difference there. But, personally, I don't make jokes about lazy black people eating fried chicken and being stupid. As a society, we really don't do that anymore. Hopefully. I think joking about sexual assault is one of the areas where people should not go.
But, hey,(shrugs) humor is humor and I'm not trying to censor anyone. Just saying it's (IMO) bad taste.