I, too, pray for the boys. My son lived in a frat house during his college years. He was the guy who kept everyone in line, got them out of the little trouble when there was too much drinking. Since most of the guys were ROTC they knew what they could lose if there was real trouble, but sometimes, trouble finds you and you are totally innocent. This is just so sad for these families.
And I know, that there but for the Grace of G-d, it could have been our family.