Isn't it remarkable how that works?
No one has the time or the ability to monitor all private messages, but do a "look at me!" "Look at me" nasty private email, and you can pretty much expect lightning to follow.
Me? if I get one of those private darling messages I blow it away and ignore it, or if interesting enough, post it in the open forum and "out" the moron...
Are we allowed to post freepmails? I thought that was against the rules.