I already did that part...I'm just havin' trouble with the *meaning it* about the "Oh, I'll pay" part.
And the fact that I didn't have money to spare.
But at this point, I've already said "I'm not going to ask you to pay," so further discussion is really pointless. Right or wrong, I've said I'd do it, and it's not fair to my brother to keep waffling. If he later decides to send me a portion of the cost, so be it. If not...well, I'll be OK in the long run. It's just a frustration and it's not going to make or break my life.
Heh...you can just lay a guilt trip on him.
"Don't call me because I don't have a phone now."
:)
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