I really can't even imagine. It's one of those things every time I think about I'm so thankful for my parents. Every time one of my grandparents pulls something idiotic I remember that it could be worse, my parents could have inherited their stupidity... my poor mother is practically taking bets on who pulls a scene at the wedding...
Think how lucky your boys are that they have a dad they (should) want to be around.
Thanks. I made myself (and my boys) a promise early on that I'd try to do better. Not sure I have.
My Dad wasn't a bad father. But the alcohol often made him an absentee father. He tried to correct that, but I was being a teenager.
gotta run...