The ***OFFICIAL*** Weekend Singles' Thread -- Easter Weekend (April 14-16)

April 14, 2006 | Victoria Delsoul and Army Air Corps

[Victoria Delsoul]

The True Meaning of Easter

By: Paul Arinaga

There's a lot of controversy about the true meaning of Easter. Some claim that it's actually a pagan celebration in origin. Others lament that retailers, greeting card companies and television are changing Christianity's greatest feast into something with meaning "the size of a jelly bean."

In any case, the most common view about the real meaning of Easter is that it's a celebration of the resurrection of Jesus Christ, and that through this act, sin and death are conquered. Easter also can be seen as a season of joy. The time of sorrow is over. Lent's penitential forty days have passed, and the fifty days of the Easter season have begun. Winter is over and spring is in the air. In times past, it's said that priests would regale their parishioners with funny stories. Easter was truly a time to rejoice. To rejoice that Our Lord has Risen and that one day we too shall pass through death (which has lost its sting) and rise to New Life!

While I am certainly not erudite enough to give you the definitive answer on what Easter means. I believe that it offers many valuable insights about life, no matter what your religious beliefs. In fact, the Easter story is so powerful that it probably offers something even to an open-minded atheist!

One of the biggest lessons from the Easter story, I believe, is the power of forgiveness. Unfortunately, there are many misconceptions about what forgiveness actually is. In my opinion, it doesn't mean condoning the wrong that has been committed or allowing it to happen again. Moreover, the act of forgiving is not necessarily something you do for the transgressor (although it can be), although its power can transform the transgressor, too. It is something you may do for yourself.

When you can forgive, you can finally be free of the burden of guilt, anger, hatred or resentment. The healing process can begin or finally conclude. You can also let go of the person who hurt you. This makes you stronger and removes the power that person has over you. It's somehow ironic that by not forgiving we allow the person who has harmed us to continue to harm us, even if they themselves are unaware of the long-term damage that is being inflicted. Of course, ultimately, we are responsible. By taking responsibility now for our own interpretation of what happened in the past, we become much stronger - I think that's what people mean when they talk about "self-empowerment".

I'm not sure whether forgiveness is the main lesson of the Easter story or even a primary message from it. But I am sure that it is a valuable one. And I'm also certain that if we can learn how to forgive, we will be more productive - and happier - human beings.

Hi everybody. The themes for today are sports and movies:

1- Strange sports stories where you either participated or were a spectator. (Anything that seemed out of the ordinary and made you laugh.)

2- Favorite romantic films. Tell us about your most memorable tv/movie romances, or romantic moments.

3- Tell us about your favorite romantic movie dance scene: actors, actress, songs, soundtrack... which particular scene you thought was the best, famous quotes, etc.

And as you all well know, “in this world nothing is certain but death and taxes” and since it is also a tax weekend, we'd like to add some tax trivia, too.

Make sure to read this great essay regarding the history of taxes in the U.S. written by Army Air Corps. Outstanding job, AAC. Thanks.

Tax Trivia:

1. In 1913, the Sixteenth Amendment to the U. S. Constitution was passed. What did it do?

2. About how much did the U. S. government collect in Income Taxes in the year 2001?

3. Which country does NOT have an income tax?

4. Why was the first U. S. Income Tax implemented?

5. Which U. S. President was responsible for the largest Federal Income Tax cut in the 20th century?

6. Which President implemented the very first Income Tax in the United States?

7. As a percent of income, which country has the highest tax rate?

8. As of the year 2000, the U. S. Internal Revenue Code (or tax code for short) is how many pages long?

9. Who writes the Income Tax laws in the United States?

10. What does the Internal Revenue Service call their electronic method of filing Income Taxes?

Please, join us for some fun.

Your hosts for the weekend are:

Victoria Delsoul                             Army Air Corps

This weekend's Music

Sergio Mendes & Black Eyed Peas - Mas Que Nada

Shakira - Whenever, Whatever

Los Lonely Boys - Heaven

Los Lonely Boys – Heaven (Spanish Version)

Etta James – At Last

Charlie Rich – The Most Beautiful Girl

The Cardigans – Lovefool

Maroon 5 - This Love

Frank Sinatra – I've Got You Under My Skin

Smokey Robinson – Just To See Her

Mariah Carey - Emotions

Barry Manilow – Copacabana

Wayne Fontana & the Mindbenders - The Game Of Love

Andy Williams – Moon River

Louie Prima – Jump Jive And Wail

Shania Twain - You're Still The One

Smokey Robinson – Cruisin'

The Mamas & The Papas – California Dreamin'

Ricky Martin – Livin' The Vida Loca

Goo Goo Dolls – Give A Little Bit

Neil Diamond - America

Lou Bega – Mambo No. 5

Bobby Darin – Mack The Knife

Wayne Newton – Danke Schoen

Neil Diamond – I Am I Said

Bobby Darin – Beyond The Sea

The Marcels – Blue Moon

Sam Cooke – Another Saturday Night

Elvis Presley – My Way

Patti Labelle – Lady Marmalade

The Pretenders – Back On The Chain Gang

Bobby Darin - More

Joni Mitchell – Both Sides Now

Roy Orbison – Pretty Woman

Whitney Houston - I Wanna Dance With Somebody

Sheryl Crow – All I Want To Do

[Army Air Corps]

I still get a kick out of Adam West running on the pier with the bomb. Funny stuff!

[DollyCali]

wow snugs.. you brought enought candy for everyone!!!!

[HitmanLV]

Some days you just can't get rid of a bomb.

[Do not dub me shapka broham]

http://www.boston.com/movies/display?display=movie&id=3158

[Army Air Corps]

I admit that when I am in an especially jovial mood, I will say, "Atomic batteries to power. Turbines to speed." before I start my car.

[DollyCali]

Thanks Barb! You & Mr. max have any neat weekend plans?

[Victoria Delsoul]

Thanks much, Nunya.

[HitmanLV]

No joke, I say that almost every time I rev up my Saab 9-3!!! ;-)

[Victoria Delsoul]

That Catwoman sure is foxy!

I think so. I should get some lessons from her.

[Army Air Corps]

Like you need lessons.

[HitmanLV]

I like the 1966 era Catwomen (Julie Newmar, Lee Meriwether, Ertha Kitt) more than the movie era Catwomen. :-)

[Victoria Delsoul]

Wow, great stuff, Dolly.

I like those movies as well... and how about Saturday Night Fever and Singin' in the Rain? Those were great as well and the dancing was fantastic.

[Army Air Corps]

The question, then, is which one is your favourite?

[Victoria Delsoul]

Thanks for the tip. :-)

[Victoria Delsoul]

Regarding foxiness, lol.

[HitmanLV]

Julie Newmar. Tall T&A and goodlooks. I find them all good & sexy, to be fair, and they all have impressive bustlines, sexy legs, and each brought an impressive bootie to the table.

I give Julie the edge for her height, and because she was the first tv Catwoman. :-)

[Victoria Delsoul]

Yeah, she was a nice looking catwoman.

[Army Air Corps]

I agree, it IS a tough choice. It is like trying to determine which of Captain Kirk's babes was the best.

[rzeznikj at stout]

I don't worry about it (in fact, and for some strange reason, it's not that big a deal to me), but the sheer fact that virtually everyone around me does kinda forces me to continue to stare at it in the face.

Having said that, allow me to elaborate...

Even my cohort in crime in the campus CR's (I've mentioned her on the current UT) is worrying about my apparent lack of sociability...;)

Most times I sit down and talk with her about politics or campus happenings--more or less, a political adviser/consultant. But sometimes, the discussion wanders into non-political issues, she's always on me to join Facebook--she says it'd be a perfect fit considering I'm both a computer hack and a politico geek. Not to mention that 86% of undergrads have accounts and most use it like a drug.

However, since I'm ever the non-conformist (and the computer and political nerd), I'm too aware of the ramifications resulting from participating in such sites. Thus exists a very strange anomaly--some call it an irony...

A superposition? Irony? A need for the Singles Thread? Or maybe the founding of Lone College Kids Anonymous?

Who knows???

Hey, like Fox News, I report, you decide... ;)

But in all seriousness though, thanks much for putting out the thread and have a great Easter Weekend!!

[ilovew]

**But sometimes, the discussion wanders into non-political issues, she's always on me to join Facebook--she says it'd be a perfect fit considering I'm both a computer hack and a politico geek. Not to mention that 86% of undergrads have accounts and most use it like a drug.**

Hey, there's nothing wrong with being addicted to Facebook! :)