**I can't believe anyone would assert that marriage is only about involuntary sex or reducing the woman to a chattal state for sexual gratification by a selfish male.**
LOL...You have not been on Free Republic sex threads much, then! Luckily, they don't get out much and most are very divorced. :)
You might be right. However, a guy who has to steal it or demand it probably has no clue about how to make his lover crave it. That's the secret, become considerate enough and gentle enough and selfless enough so she dreams about it.
It would be boastful if I added, "Works for me" ;-)