You betcha, when it comes to paying for children you bring into this world.
Is it right to make special rules against those who make a lot of money because they make a lot of money? Absolutely not.
No one is making special rules. A parents salary is always factored into how much child support is paid. Randy's gotten off easy for the last nine years. Now that he's acting like an @ss about wanting some of his precious money back, I hope Heather finds the best lawyer his money can buy to restructure their child support agreement so that he'll be sorry he ever opened up this can of worms.
You are acting like nothing more than a class warfare victim, sir. Your argument is illogical - it is based on pure emotion.
Yes, the mother has a right under our legal system to pursue a higher level of support based on his income. But he has the legal right not to pay for services not rendered (the day care).
We actually don't disagree on the moral dimensions here. But your "screw the rich guy" stance, to be honest, is little more than socialism.
Have a good day.