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Married man is suing for date; EHARMONY REFUSES HIM UNTIL DIVORCE
Mercury News ^ | 3/27

Posted on 03/27/2006 9:45:07 AM PST by iPod Shuffle

Posted on Mon, Mar. 27, 2006

Married man is suing for date

EHARMONY REFUSES HIM UNTIL DIVORCE

Mercury News

John Claassen wants a date so badly he's suing for one.

He's taking eHarmony.com to court, because the popular online matchmaker refused to find him the perfect mate.

Why? Because he is married.

Technically, Claassen says, he is legally separated. But that's not good enough for eHarmony, which says it is in the business of matching singles ``free of relationship commitments.'' That puts him in cyber-dating limbo.

``Most people don't file a suit to get a date,'' Claassen said Friday after filing a civil rights suit last week in Alameda County Superior Court. ``If I had my druthers, I'd be divorced by now. I'm emotionally in a different state than I am legally,'' the 36-year-old Emeryville lawyer said.

Claassen alleges eHarmony is discriminating against him on the basis of his marital status. He and his wife of eight years separated last May, and he expects the divorce to be final within two months. When he reached marital status on eHarmony's online compatibility profile, he responded truthfully: ``legally separated.''

But eHarmony says its policy is clear: No marrieds need apply.

Citing California civil code, section 51, Claassen alleges eHarmony, based in Pasadena, is breaking state law because it is denying him access to its matching service based on marital status. He seeks $12,000 in civil penalties.

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KEYWORDS: eharmony; lawsuit; onlinedating; singles
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To: mbraynard
Go read the public accomondation laws. Look at the list of reasons you can't discriminate. You will find marital status there along with race and age.

How does a public accomodation law apply to a private business that merely told him to wait 2 more months?

161 posted on 03/27/2006 4:16:42 PM PST by r9etb
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To: Irish_Thatcherite

Just keep your hands to yourself.


162 posted on 03/27/2006 4:16:53 PM PST by tuliptree76 (Tagline Wanted: Now Accepting Applications.)
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To: Irish_Thatcherite; tuliptree76

Actually, that could be modified into a very fun tagline...


163 posted on 03/27/2006 4:16:55 PM PST by Hoodlum91 (Tour guide goddess)
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To: Irish_Thatcherite

Do you mean "bare hands"?


164 posted on 03/27/2006 4:17:27 PM PST by rightwingintelligentsia (You know a liberal has lost the argument when he calls you a Nazi.)
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To: pcottraux

Here we all are. One happy disfunctional family. :)


165 posted on 03/27/2006 4:18:33 PM PST by Maximus_Ridiculousness (I got yer red stapler right here, Milton.)
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To: Maximus_Ridiculousness

Look at us go.


166 posted on 03/27/2006 4:20:57 PM PST by pcottraux (It's pronounced "P. Coe-troe.")
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To: Maximus_Ridiculousness

Well, we do function on a certain level...


167 posted on 03/27/2006 4:21:23 PM PST by Supernatural
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To: tuliptree76

Well ok, if I live the US, the Dems would prob take my hands from me!!


168 posted on 03/27/2006 4:23:18 PM PST by Irish_Thatcherite (~~~A vote for Bertie Ahern is a vote for Gerry Adams!~~~)
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To: Hoodlum91

It could?


169 posted on 03/27/2006 4:24:11 PM PST by Irish_Thatcherite (~~~A vote for Bertie Ahern is a vote for Gerry Adams!~~~)
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To: Supernatural

A very bizarre level, sometimes.


170 posted on 03/27/2006 4:24:40 PM PST by rightwingintelligentsia (You know a liberal has lost the argument when he calls you a Nazi.)
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To: rightwingintelligentsia

I suppose.. under certain circumstances...


171 posted on 03/27/2006 4:24:57 PM PST by Irish_Thatcherite (~~~A vote for Bertie Ahern is a vote for Gerry Adams!~~~)
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To: rightwingintelligentsia

Exactly.

But bizarre can be sooo much fun (sometimes).


172 posted on 03/27/2006 4:25:44 PM PST by Supernatural
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To: Supernatural
I like this song too:

What Part of No
by Lorrie Morgan

Sir if you don't mind I'd rather be alone
From the moment I walked in tonight
You've been coming on
If I've told you once I've told you twice
I'm just here to unwind
I'm not interested in romance or
What you have in mind

What part of no don't you understand
To put it plain and simple
I'm not into one night stands
I'll be glad to explain it
If it's too hard to comprehend
So tell me what part of no
Don't you understand

I appreciate the drink and the
Rose was nice of you
I don't mean to be so mean
But I don't think I'm getting through
No I don't need no company
No I don't wanna dance
So what part of no don't you understand

What part of no don't you understand
To put it plain and simple
I'm not into one night stands
I'll be glad to explain it
If it's too hard to comprehend
So tell me what part of no
Don't you understand

173 posted on 03/27/2006 4:28:15 PM PST by tuliptree76 (Tagline Wanted: Now Accepting Applications.)
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To: iPod Shuffle

Hell's bells - what an idiot.

Oh wait, he's a lawyer. Nevermind.


174 posted on 03/27/2006 4:31:53 PM PST by beaureguard
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To: SuzyQue
It is illegal for a business to discriminate against someone based on marital status.

Please don't get into an argument with me - I don't agree with the law. That's just what the law is.

175 posted on 03/27/2006 4:32:30 PM PST by mbraynard (I don't even HAVE a mustache!)
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To: r9etb

Same way it applies to a private business telling a black guy they can't sit at a lunch counter, duh.


176 posted on 03/27/2006 4:33:21 PM PST by mbraynard (I don't even HAVE a mustache!)
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To: tuliptree76

"I'm not into one night stands"

Neither am I.


177 posted on 03/27/2006 4:35:07 PM PST by Supernatural
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To: mbraynard

No, I'm not arguing either. Just wondering. Is that local law, or a federally protected status? I've read articles about landlords refusing to rent to non-married couples and (with my faulty memory) I seem to remember that in some locales they have to rent regardless, but not in all.


178 posted on 03/27/2006 4:38:40 PM PST by SuzyQue
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To: Maximus_Ridiculousness

Hi Max!


179 posted on 03/27/2006 4:41:35 PM PST by RockinRight (Yes...she's an excellent tour guide!)
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To: Supernatural
This is a good one too:

If You're Not In it For Love (I'm Outta Here)
by Shania Twain

Mind if I sit down?
Can I buy you a round?
Haven't seen your face before
Are you new in town?
It's the same old line
Oh every time
Are you here alone?
Can I take you home?

Now every woman sees
With every "pretty please"
There's a pair of lyin' eyes
And a set of keys
He says come be a star
In the back seat of my car
Oh but baby slow down
You're goin' way too far

Let me make it clear
To you my dear

If you're not
In it for love (baby)
If you're not
Willin' to give it all you got
If you're not in it for life
If you're not in it for love
Let me make it clear
To you my dear
If you're not in it for love
I'm outta here!

Babe I can change your world
Make you a cover girl
Yeah you could be a beauty queen
In a magazine
Now tell me, what's your sign?
Why always the same old line?
I'll be in number 409
If you change your mind

Let me make it clear
To you my dear

If you're not
In it for love (baby)
If you're not
Willin' to give it all you got
If you're not in it for life
If you're not in it for love
Let me make it clear
To you my dear
If you're not in it for love
I'm outta here!

180 posted on 03/27/2006 4:42:00 PM PST by tuliptree76 (Tagline Wanted: Now Accepting Applications.)
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