Pamela Bach, left, poses with husband David Hasselhoff in this Aug. 11, 2000 file photo in Los Angeles.
I just can't believe he would be violent against someone...am I just naive?
Posted on 03/09/2006 1:10:40 PM PST by ChandyB71
Most likely.
"The da%& car told me to do it!!!"
That's making me dizzy.
I wondered how long before the Hasselhoff pics began.... :)
Of course,if the charges are true it should be held against the husband.
Emotional abuse is a whole other story.
I don't believe in "emotional" abuse.
When you are an adult you should be able to handle someone calling you stupid, ugly, lazy, fat, stinky, and wrong. It happends on FR all the time.
Heck I get flipped off occasionally, it doesn't cause me to go into a tail spin.
Flame away!
happends=happens
Yeah, I'm stupid!
At first glance it looks like he's humping a toilet seat in that picture.
The emotional abuse can be an iffy area....Depends on the issues involved.
If someone you think loves you starts hammering away at WHO you are, brings up every fear or weakness you've ever told them to hurt you....well, it can be pretty awful.
Especially if you've entrusted them with your real self (your deepest fear, worst self-doubts etc).....
Heck, I'd rather be hit.
Awwww mannnn!! I did a search too, dangitall. Oh well....the more Hasselhoff the better, IMO!!
LOL...and a toilet seat "spewing" a mess too! :)
Emotional Abuse by a spouse is not easy to get over. I know first hand. It is related and in correlation with mental abuse, wherein, you are constantly demeaned, yelled at, critiqued, blamed, harrassed verbally, and made to feel like you are about as small as an ant.
Even as an adult, this kind of treatment, is worse than physical abuse, IMO and the scars go deeper and take longer to heal. But I'm just speaking from personal experience, others may not agree.
If someone you think loves you starts hammering away at WHO you are, brings up every fear or weakness you've ever told them to hurt you....well, it can be pretty awful.
Don't you think that would be a good indication they don't love you? It isn't an indication that you are not loveable. Now, if they threaten you with physical harm and you believe they are serious, that is a crime. It's called assault whether they actually cause harm or not. It is not "emotional abuse," it is a crime of assault.
Yep, I too have had that experience. It made me tougher, it made me plumb the depths of my character, but it is not the same as being physically assaulted.
As long as you think of yourself as a "victim" of verbal abuse - you will be - and it's your own fault. IMHO
I guess it's because
a. I'm emotionally fragile and
b. I work with the emotionally, mentally & physically fragile.
Believe me, I would rather be slapped than be verbally slashed by someone that I thought loved me (parent, spouse, sibling). Really, for you NOT to hurt me means I feel nothing for you.
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