[HOTTIEBOY]

I think all that really matters is how you feel when you look in the mirror. It doesn't matter if I like it or anyone else likes it. It matters if you like it. And if you don't like it, fix it.

Self confidence is one of those unseen auras that surround people and are unconsciously picked up on by other people.

[najida]

OK,
I don't think you 'get' what I'm saying.

Somethings can't be 'fixed' without surgery. It's genetics, body types, the way thinks fit together. Like your friend with the serious junk in the trunk who was also very fit.

To change the size of her hips would have required a radical operation.....

That is the way her body was put together. Great!
So stay the heck away from her and let her find someone who thinks she's gorgeous with her trunk full of fun.