That victim crap is a copout. You must take responsibility for your actions or you will never make it. It will always be some outside force controlling your life, like, I'm a Taurus, blah, blah blah. We all have emtional problems to some degree, it's how we handle them. It's called life my dear little paranoid friend.
Ever had therapy by a mental health facility? Ever had shock therapy? Have you ever been desensitized? Maybe you should try it sometime and find out what it feels like. Look it up on the internet - "Devastating Affects of Shock Therapy". Maybe then you'll understand what the real world is all about. Perhaps a visit to a mental institution is in order. Wake up to reality! If you are not an idiot they will turn you into one.