Why? Because I view you as someone who needs professional help instead of coddling you? The issues involving pre-marital sex are minor compared with a 40 year old going through the emotional development process usually done by individuals in their late teens/early twenties.
Why, because some of us are not like you? Maybe you'd be happy if everyone is a libertine like you think we all should be. Maybe you don't like it but there are many of us who appeal to a higher standard and strive to live tht way. If you think that is crazy, fine, there is no way on Gods green Earth I can convince you to think otherwise. You can have your "free love" in Thailand all you want, I aspire to a higher standard. Lastly, wisdom can come from many places so I'll leave you with another tidbit, back in the 1960's, there was a saying, "if you're not part of the solution, you are part of the problem" and I would suggest that you look in the mirror (if they have such luxuries over there). You might not see it, but when you point fingers at me or others like me here, there are four, five or more pointing back at you. You may think you are Mr. Big, but you looks small from here. Beyond that, the only thing I have left to tell you is to "go play in traffic," I could say worse but I don't want the mods mad at me. I consider this discussion with you closed and good night.