Why, because some of us are not like you? Maybe you'd be happy if everyone is a libertine like you think we all should be. Maybe you don't like it but there are many of us who appeal to a higher standard and strive to live tht way. If you think that is crazy, fine, there is no way on Gods green Earth I can convince you to think otherwise. You can have your "free love" in Thailand all you want, I aspire to a higher standard. Lastly, wisdom can come from many places so I'll leave you with another tidbit, back in the 1960's, there was a saying, "if you're not part of the solution, you are part of the problem" and I would suggest that you look in the mirror (if they have such luxuries over there). You might not see it, but when you point fingers at me or others like me here, there are four, five or more pointing back at you. You may think you are Mr. Big, but you looks small from here. Beyond that, the only thing I have left to tell you is to "go play in traffic," I could say worse but I don't want the mods mad at me. I consider this discussion with you closed and good night.
It is not about being crazy. My last post to you wasn't my opinion, but a fact. There is emotional development that takes place by being involved in relationships. Being in your 40s and not having been through that growth period is not healthy. You can say it is God's will or whatever else, but it doesn't change the fact that you have missed out on a large part of the human experience.
You can have your "free love" in Thailand all you want, I aspire to a higher standard.
Huh? I am in a completely monogamous relationship with someone I have known for 5 years and love dearly. Thanks for playing.
Beyond that, the only thing I have left to tell you is to "go play in traffic,"
In response, I will say, lighten up and enjoy life. It is not so bad.