Sorry. I'm tired and still a little out of it from the weekend :-)
By the way they didn't do anything quite navel-gazing enough to make us walk out - the one your brother went to must have been baaad. Or he just wasn't as eager to get married as we are ;-)
Well...his was in the diocese of San Francisco. I think they did stuff along the lines of liturgical dance. He would NOT go for that.