One more ammunition possibility for you:
Speer 357 Magnum 135 grain Gold Dot Hollowpoint. This is Speer's 357 Magnum round designed for snubbies. The ballistics for it(990 ft/sec muzzle velocity and 294 ft-lbs muzzle energy) look like it must just barely be in Magnum pressure territory. Haven't ever shot it, but it must be pretty mild for 357 Magnum. For comparison, the Winchester 110 grain that I mentioned in the other reply is something like 1295 ft/sec & 410 ft-lbs and the Remington Golden Saber 125 grain is around 1225 ft/sec & 415 ft-lbs. Not sure if those are the exact numbers but they're pretty close.
That sounds like a good one. I added it to my list. You sure have been a big help! I really appreciate the time and trouble to help me out because I really want to be able to use this revolver.