If there are five antelopes born and five antelopes dying per decade, the average lifespan is not ten years--it is two years.
Consider: in a million years (number chosen large so as to render phasing effects trivial) there will have been 12,000,000,000 antelopes that lived, 24,000 at a time, a total of 24,000,000,000 antelope-years. It doesn't matter whether some animals lived for millenia while others lasted only minutes. The total number of antelope-years accummulated will be 24,000,000,000 (since a herd of 24,000 antelope will accumullate 24,000 antelope-years per year) and the total number of antelope will be 12,000,000,000 (birth rate of 5 antelope per antelope per decade). Thus an average of two antelope-years per antelope, or (more simply), two years.
Corrections requested if I have calculated incorrectly.
Depends on how many 5-12 y/os I package each year and their age distribution. Harvests vary from year to year. Averages are taken over a wide enough window to smooth out the bumps. Hard winters, drought, disease can also take a toll periodically. In general any particular ecosystem can only support some stable population. Dieoffs tend to be the rule that maintains it. The young and old are the most probable to die off. The average age is essentially constant.