OTOH-- There is ONE girl, with whom I have developed a bit of a friendship, and we have written each other several times. However-- she lives about 100 miles away, and has 3 ,kids. SO-- most likely nothing more than a casual friendship will come out of it.
I've been on "American Singles" and Yahoo! Personals for months and never got a single response.
The only luck I had was on Mate1.com. As soon as I posted my profile there, I got several e-mails from girls wanting to get to know me. Problem is, you can't talk unless you buy the full membership, which is like $50 for three months. No way. I got a whole bunch of unanswered mails. Almost every girl there is not...wholesome looking, if you know what I mean. Bad girls.