Well, she's married to a jerk. But I agree with you. She's married and has made a commitment and seems to be as selfish as her husband. I well understand her grief at not having more children, but she should take care of the one she has and understand that life does not always produce what we want out of it.
The fact that she allows Andre to run her life says a lot about her as well. Tell him you are going to school, going to get a job or do whatever.
Of course we only hear the "victim" 's side in all of these letters.
Now, if somehow we could have the Dear Abby's get some input from Penthouse Forum letters then that would be fun to read.