The fact that she allows Andre to run her life says a lot about her as well. Tell him you are going to school, going to get a job or do whatever.
Of course we only hear the "victim" 's side in all of these letters.
Now, if somehow we could have the Dear Abby's get some input from Penthouse Forum letters then that would be fun to read.
Exactly right. Maybe it's impractical for her to go back to school. Maybe they can't afford it. Maybe she has new ideas like this every week. Who knows. What I've read of her shows that she's only interested in her feelings, and not anyone elses.
My advice to her would be: "The grass is not always greener on the other side, sweetheart. You've turned to pills, counselors, and advice columnists - how about you turn to Christ for the answer? I bet you'd find His answer to be quite different."