that if God wants you (me, anybody) to NOT be single then he wouldleve a member of the opposite sex lying on the sidewalk.
See?
Sorry. But I am not good with jokes.
Well if you want to have serious conversation, fine then.
I do not presume to speak for your life, but my perspective is that in these personal things God wants us to be happy, and unless a partner would be a hindrance (a real monstrosity of a personality or whatever... ) to our spiritual life, it is up to us to choose whaether we are to be "together " or alone.
"It is better to marry than to burn".
Burning can be a real spiritual hindrance.