Is it just me?
Yeah,
14 years is a bit much when the girl is 21 and the guy is 35 (so no, it's not you)....granted, I don't have any room to talk.
Neither would most of the women in my family.
Thinking about it, yeah...it ain't always good.
It's just you. I was 34 when I started dating my wife. She was 21 at the time. We have been together for 21 years, married 13.
I consider myself living proof that all such relationships needn't end in murder.