This is where I myself begin to calculate the affection/comfort ratio on cuddling. Even the sweetest of men become over ripe on occasion...
xshub is very cuddleable, don't get me wrong, but we are just not big cuddlers, for whatever reason. xsbrownie doesn't care how hot it is, she is pressed up against me wherever we are : ) bc i know the years where she will want to do that are fleeting, i never push her away ever.