You act like women should be offended that men want to "date" them first as opposed to getting a look at them in a coffee shop and proposing marriage.
Actually I think courtship is a better model and is the one I am teaching my daughters and son. Much more realistic model than playing house OR dating.
Explain your idea of courtship if it doesn't involve "dating" a person?
You are kidding, right? Unless you're Amish, I think you're really over the top.