No you don't. If you sent flowers to my teen-aged granddaughter and you weren't a very close friend of the family or a relative, I'd be after you in a heart beat. You really are an idiot.
No, you are the idiot.
Those girls won the state championship. I sent flowers congratulating them, without including my name. They divided them up and took them home. Their coach helped with this.
I think we, as a society, are getting to a point where we are paranoid and downright nuts.