I must add: DO NOT wear white, even if it is a June wedding and your choices are limited. It's the bride's day. She gets to look like the cake.
The invitation to my sister-in-law's second wedding (this May) specified that the guests *should* wear white or khaki. (My mother and I had a good snicker over that.) I said I wasn't going, but my husband could if he felt like it; he invented a previous commitment :-).
I'm in fear that I'll resemble the cake. My dress isn't frilly, but it IS white and full-skirted.
I'm just hoping I lose my usual 20 pounds between now (Renfest rehearsal starts this weekend) and then, because my waist will almost disappear. That'll make me a bit less cakelike, I hope.