Amazingly, you would not believe the people emailing me asking if our support group intends to change nights...like we should! And if we don't, I can just hear what they're going to say...
"You are just being mean-spirited!"
That's their "catch phrase". If you don't agree with them, you're mean-spirited. If you don't go with them, you're mean-spirited. If you even so much as question their reasons, you're mean-spirited. If you don't cowtow to them, you're mean-spirited.
My spririt is grieving and sad, resolute and clear. It's not mean.
It really is amazing. Even to this minute I can't believe it and I can't believe that the majority of ladies followed along. It really seems to me to be a glimpse into what it's actually gonna be like in the End. It just shows me that people are capable of following a leader blindly and so devotedly that you dare not criticize or question.
If you would have told me this could have happened 2 or three months ago, I wouldn't have believed it.
Mean-spiritedness is one of my spiritual gifts.
It sounds like a lot of clubs and groups I've known. It's often about leading or following cults of personality. Just like government, but on a smaller scale. :~D
Be sure to let anyone who asks know that.