Surely you are not implying that either of us our chaste. We are married persons, that can't tell us to be virgins.
I saved myself for marriage. ;o)
The problem with this as I see it, is they involved non-consenting people. If a couple wants to do bondage in the privacy of their home,and they are both adults then it's not really the states business. If they want to do bondage in the local mall then they have involved all those people in the mall and those people did not consent to be involved.