[westmichman]

I would bet that if your wife talks about divorce every day she has someone else in mind.

[spunkets]

"I would bet that if your wife talks about divorce every day she has someone else in mind."

I'd say on hand.

[BizzeeMom]

That's the first thing that came to my mind, especially since she "won't go" to counselling.

I've been divorced. When one person starts nitpicking and then won't seek counselling or help to save the relationship, it's a good bet they just plain want out.