You know what else? This is FR. This is suppose to be the voice of conservative reason. Nobody has complemented me on the disgust I have for my daughter living in sin. No words of encouragement for standing my ground for values. Man if freepers don't appreciate my stance, I can only imagine what some judge will do.
Then let me be the first: Congratulations, and my compliments, on having a daughter who disgusts you by living in sin. Let me encourage you to keep on being the kind of father you are. And, thank you for the laughs. Sorry they were at your expense.
She's probably livng in sin to tick you off. Ignore it. She knows how you feel. Pay her tuition and don't expect her to kiss your feet. You'll feel like you did the right thing and there's nothing she can "blame" you for.
How often do you see your daughter?
OK...now you forced me into therapy mode..... Yes you are hurt. I'd imagine your daughter did not move in with this fellow to hurt you....she just may love this guy and he may become your son-in-law...so give it time. She "is" an adult...even though you are still providing some support. In time you may be hunting with the man living with your daughter....so...don't inflick wounds that may never heal.
He may be in a hunting blind near you...GRIN.