She's probably livng in sin to tick you off. Ignore it. She knows how you feel. Pay her tuition and don't expect her to kiss your feet. You'll feel like you did the right thing and there's nothing she can "blame" you for.
How often do you see your daughter?
I think you're right. Not only am I going to pay her tuition, I'm going to send her a carton of smokes. I am also going to send her a gross of condoms since it looks like she will need them. I will also send her a couple of cases of whiskey and the directions to the local indian Casino.