If someone were to force me to join a church (and that'll be a cold day in Hell, so to speak), I'd become an Episcopalian, I guess -- I'd only be required to give up something I don't like anyway for Lent.
no flame ... the New Testament addresses this specifically ... you might be surprised to read this ...
Colossians 2:16 KJV
Let no man therefore judge you in meat, or in drink,
or in respect of an holyday, or of the new moon,
or of the Sabbath days:
http://bible.gospelcom.net/cgi-bin/bible?search=judge+drink&SearchType=AND&version=KJV&restrict=Epistles&StartRestrict=&EndRestrict=&rpp=25&language=english&searchpage=0&x=12&y=7
Episcopalians don't "force" you to give up anything for Lent.