If its just me and a girlfriend I dont mind buying my own drink. Lets get real though, nine times out of ten, we only have to buy the first one...
I would NEVER date someone who I had to pick up the tab or go "dutch". I would think he was a total loser.
My reasoning is this: I spend ALOT of money looking good, hair, nails, skin care, gym, cosmetics, clothing, SHOES.. I refuse to pay for drinks or dinner on any date.
Call me what you will thats how I feel.
I've been SCREAMED at for picking up teh tab.
I usually look around for Rod Serling, but since he's nowhere evidenced I end up with the conclusion that the screamer insisting on paying for the tab is too liberated.
Well, men have to pay alot too!!! We have to..... um... get a ..... get a haircut, yeah, we do that.... and .... and we take a shower, and hot water is expensive..... and..... ummmmm....... well...... errrr.......
I smell a hit country song.
Call me what you wiiiiilll...
But that's how I feeeeeeel.
Hey, I spend a lot of money on all those things, too (well, not cosmetics).
Again, you missed my point, and if you read my previous post, I said that I expect a date to pick up the tab. That is just the was I was raised, and if I went out with a man who wanted to go dutch, it would probably be the first and last date for us.
What I was discussing was a scenerio of a night out with the girls, and just playing up to a man or men, to get them to buy your drinks. Have never done it, never will.