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To: Mama_Bear; JustAmy; Jen; KangarooJacqui; Brad's Gramma; Victoria Delsoul; T'wit; ...

June 4, 2004

The Rebuke From A Friend

Read: Galatians 2:11-20

Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful. —Proverbs 27:6

Bible In One Year: 2 Chronicles 21-22; John 14


Never will I forget the rebuke I received from a friend when I was 17. He walked into the back of the butcher shop where I worked and saw me laughing at an indecent cartoon. He said he had admired my Christian character, and was surprised that I would laugh at something sinful and degrading. Instantly a wave of embarrassment swept over me. I shamefully admitted that I had sinned.

It's not pleasant to be rebuked, nor is it easy to rebuke another person. So I can imagine that the apostle Paul didn't like confronting Peter (Galatians 2:11). But he felt he had to, because Peter's hypocritical behavior was hurtful and confusing to the Gentile converts at Antioch. Peter had freely eaten with them, but after some Jews from Jerusalem came to the Antioch church, he shunned the Gentiles, fearing the Jews' disapproval. I imagine that he felt shame, but he apparently accepted the rebuke gracefully and changed his ways. He knew that Paul was a true friend who loved him. And in later years he referred to him as "our beloved brother Paul" (2 Peter 3:15).

If you must rebuke someone, do it gently. If you are rebuked, avoid an angry response. You may be getting a needed "faithful wound" from a friend. —Herb Vander Lugt

A friend will gently say what's true,
Although it may cause pain;
He's really thinking of our good
And what we stand to gain. —D. De Haan

A true friend will put a finger on your faults without rubbing them in.

731 posted on 06/04/2004 4:27:40 AM PDT by The Mayor (The end of all things is at hand; therefore be serious and watchful in your prayers)
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To: The Mayor

Morning, Mayor!

Your daily lessons always give me something to muse on in the evenings (Friday's almost over for me.)


734 posted on 06/04/2004 4:39:03 AM PDT by KangarooJacqui (Our land abounds in nature's gifts of beauty rich and rare...)
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To: The Mayor

Thank you for posting that this morning.

(Now what friend can I rebuke?...Just kidding!)


764 posted on 06/04/2004 10:13:15 AM PDT by PreviouslyA-Lurker (Just wash the pillowcase and forget about chipmunks. --- stolen from T'wit)
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