[Conservababe]

Lord love a duck, I was just thinking of you in the last few days. I need your advice.

My husband got a promotion in his company. But, I should have been careful what I wished for, really.

I had forgotten for years what wives have to endure in corporate social settings. I just know that you know what I mean. Now, I must do that again and I dread it, as I have forgotten my corporate manners and protocol. I need a refresher course, Ringy. LOL

Long ago when I was in this position, I was appalled that men and women wanted to shake hands, quite firmly, upon being introduced. Southern women would rather not shake hands, would you not agree? But, I became accustomed to it, finally. And then began the kissy kissy cheek to cheek of women to each other. I became accustomed to it also. So fake, it was.

So, anyway, I have to do it again. Any tips of the new protocol of trying to maintain sanity while at these corporate functions without making a serious blunder?

[westmex]

Can't life be he!! at times...lol

.....Westy.....

[Letitring]

Be yourself. If you don't you'll be miserable and everyone will notice. Also, about the handshake thingie, a woman instigates that. If you put forth your hand, a handshake is acceptable and expected. If you don't extend your hand, it's acceptable and you'll give and receive a nod. The men usually stiffen the upper portion of their body and bend toward you as in a brief nod, you smile real big and say something nice. I usually tip my head, grin real big and ask about their family, Mother, Sister, dog, etc. Or just say how ARE you? Comment about the weather, sports, whatever common ground you can find and do your homework. Ask questions about them, as in hobbies, lifestyle, etc. You'll be fine. I have confidence.

Remember, every man can make Colonel (sp) on his own, but it takes a woman to make a General. :)

[lodwick]

Big ups to Mr.CB - condolences to you.

Just smile a lot, and say, "Well isn't that nice, and aren't you a dear for letting me know?"