Be yourself. If you don't you'll be miserable and everyone will notice. Also, about the handshake thingie, a woman instigates that. If you put forth your hand, a handshake is acceptable and expected. If you don't extend your hand, it's acceptable and you'll give and receive a nod. The men usually stiffen the upper portion of their body and bend toward you as in a brief nod, you smile real big and say something nice. I usually tip my head, grin real big and ask about their family, Mother, Sister, dog, etc. Or just say how ARE you? Comment about the weather, sports, whatever common ground you can find and do your homework. Ask questions about them, as in hobbies, lifestyle, etc. You'll be fine. I have confidence.
Remember, every man can make Colonel (sp) on his own, but it takes a woman to make a General. :)
I just knew you would understand. That is what I have always done with the handshake. But, that kissy kissy in the air over another woman's cheek dismayed me. LOL
Oh, it is so delightful, really, to charm with a southern accent (natural, not contrived) and get them to talk on and on and on of themselves...until my eyes glaze over. Now, I not talking of my friends here, but those corporate folks.
Hey, I may not have lost my touch, afterall. LOL