Yup. Lord knows I gave him enough chances!!!
*sigh* I'm just relieved to know that I am free of him. I can't believe I used to let him talk like that to me ALL the time.
I think it's sad, truly. To be so angry all of the time, instead of just enjoying life and moving forward.
Ruthy, you know you are not the only one talking here tonight who has let ex's talk to us like that... and put up with stuff like that. It just takes a while to finally get to the point where you figure out that it never gets better I think. And it also takes a while to figure out all those stupid things they tell us are lies!!!
As I recall, I was just about your age when it finally sunk in for me! And I must say, all those years since then have been a lot better! It is even better to be alone and lonely than have somebody that treats ya like that. But, you will not end up being alone for long I think! :-)