[HairOfTheDog]

Sometimes I am up for debate, I can dig that, but about halfway through it you can tell when you are debating someone who isn't there for the right answer, they are there to out-fight the opponent. It leads them to say silly things when the topic is men and women.... Maybe we have an awful lot of people who get ~it~ wrong in this country, but pairing up is still the main goal in most people's lives, and even the ones who get it wrong wanted happiness. I would assert that no one goes into a relationship with malice, but it is amazing how many talk that way.

[RosieCotton]

I would assert that no one goes into a relationship with malice, but it is amazing how many talk that way.

THAT is precisely what bothers me most. And you can't win against people like that.

They act as if all we single wimmin do - young/old, conservative/liberal, no matter what - is to sit around plotting how we can entrap unsuspecting men, have a couple of kids, and then destroy them and rip their hearts out. Um...I don't have that much time. I'm too busy enjoying life, and trying to become a better person myself!