I sense you are feeling some hostility, and that can be a destructive element in our efforts to reach consensus. We need to work through these feelings and return to a level of discourse where we can discuss the issues of cognitive conflict between us. :)
You are right, I will take a "Time out" and then first thing in the morning I will go to my doctor and get on Ritalin and then sign myself up for self esteem classes and sensitivity training.