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Mom Defends Son Who Beat up His Bully, Got Suspended — "The School Did Nothing"
Distractify ^ | May 2, 2023 | Robin Zlotnik

Posted on 05/02/2023 7:08:20 AM PDT by Fiji Hill

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To: DJ MacWoW

Agree.


61 posted on 05/02/2023 9:30:37 AM PDT by peggybac (My will is what I wanted. God's will is what I got.)
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To: Fiji Hill

I hope the mom can get her son to look at it as a worthwhile vacation. Having the suspension on his record is perpetuating the abuse the student has received.
OTOH - I remember giving a neighborhood bully a beatdown. The entire dynamic changed once snot-nosed punk got consequences. Said punk was used to taunting and attacking everyone. And everyone would just back away and try to avoid conflict.
Having grown up with a few brothers one gets used to being in tussles. That can be good preparation for mano a mano confrontations.


62 posted on 05/02/2023 9:36:09 AM PDT by Honest Nigerian
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To: DJ MacWoW

You really have no idea what you are talking about do you? Unfortunately if they went to the newspaper there would be the same ilk like yourself who would blame the victim. Secondly, the school district has deep taxpayer pockets. I guess you must have unlimited income, good for yo.


63 posted on 05/02/2023 9:41:39 AM PDT by New Perspective (As Leonard Cohen said once in an interview, “You won’t like what comes after America”)
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To: New Perspective
You really have no idea what you are talking about do you?

Been there, done that, I won. And I didn't have "deep pockets".

You might want to be careful about thinking you know what others have experienced.

64 posted on 05/02/2023 9:50:30 AM PDT by DJ MacWoW (The Fed Gov is not one ring to rule them all)
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To: DJ MacWoW

NO YOU might want to STOP blaming the parents of the VICTIM. Not everyone may have the resources you do!How about YOU blame the bully and the administration that is NOT doing their job!


65 posted on 05/02/2023 10:20:56 AM PDT by New Perspective (As Leonard Cohen said once in an interview, “You won’t like what comes after America”)
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To: New Perspective
Not everyone may have the resources you do!

You're making assumptions again. My hubby was out of work and our "resources' were welfare and food stamps.

How about YOU blame the bully and the administration that is NOT doing their job!

Protecting my kids was/is my job and no one elses. And I never said the bully wasn't at fault. I said there was more the parents could have done sooner. Get a grip and quit thinking that you know everything about everyone.

66 posted on 05/02/2023 10:26:47 AM PDT by DJ MacWoW (The Fed Gov is not one ring to rule them all)
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To: Fiji Hill
The exact same thing happened to me when I was in high school in November of 1978 (I will always remember that date). I finally fought a bully that had been tormenting in class since school started that year. Taking my father's advice, when the class bell rang, I got out of the classroom before he did and stood by the door. As he came out, I cold-cocked him.

I got a week's suspension. Nothing happened to the bully. But all was good at home.

I did get worked over pretty good by the bully's gang shortly after that but I still think I did the right thing. That particular kid never hassled me in class again.

67 posted on 05/02/2023 10:30:16 AM PDT by SamAdams76 (5,181,324 Truth | 87,174,230 Twitter)
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To: Fiji Hill

Whatr no one has addressed here is that old folks beyond fighting physically for themselves are often subject to continual elder neglect and abuse for objecting to the msuse of their self respect and emotional state. And don’t know what to do about it.


68 posted on 05/02/2023 10:55:08 AM PDT by imardmd1 (To learn is to live. To live is to teach another. Fiat Lux!)
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To: Fiji Hill

I had a similar story.

For me, it took one punch.

One punch. In the mouth. A mouth full of braces. I cut my knuckles on his braces, through his lips. There was a copious amount of blood. His white dress shirt showed it off really well.

All of this in front of a elementary school graduation assembly full of parents.

It was glorious.


69 posted on 05/02/2023 11:10:11 AM PDT by Crusher138 ("Then conquer we must, for our cause it is just")
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To: Fiji Hill

The real question is why this mother would consent to her daughter being exposed to such a horrible place as this school. If they are this wrong on the bullying issue, chances are they are wrong and “woke” on everything else. Removing her daughter from this indoctrination center decreases the odds that her daughter will end up a communist lesbian.


70 posted on 05/02/2023 12:22:13 PM PDT by fr_freak
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To: DJ MacWoW

YOU were the one who said the parents were not doing enough. I defended them, you didn’t.


71 posted on 05/02/2023 1:38:59 PM PDT by New Perspective (As Leonard Cohen said once in an interview, “You won’t like what comes after America”)
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To: Fiji Hill

The boy is better off OUT of public school.


72 posted on 05/02/2023 4:33:33 PM PDT by Glad2bnuts (Repent, turn back to your first Love. If you do well you will be blessed, if not...America 2023)
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To: unixfox

Nice thinking


73 posted on 05/02/2023 4:34:40 PM PDT by Glad2bnuts (Repent, turn back to your first Love. If you do well you will be blessed, if not...America 2023)
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To: Labyrinthos

The second punch thrown makes you the loser. If you make the decision that you are being bullied. Set him up for first blow. In the real world, waiting to be hit first can get you badly hurt. I was not even 5’ tall until I was 15. Imagine being picked on in grade school. I was the same size as my 3 years younger brother. My dad said, if you can’t put a hurt on a bigger boy, use a stick. I never could imagine hurting someone on purpose. I fought, and got my butt handed to me until my senior year, when I grew to 5’ 7” and 160 lbs and wrestled guys in the 150 range. I learned how to grab, grasp and throw. No need to punch when you can pickem up and drop them rudely. Junior year I wrestled at 102 lbs soaking wet. People were surprised.


74 posted on 05/02/2023 4:42:57 PM PDT by Glad2bnuts (Repent, turn back to your first Love. If you do well you will be blessed, if not...America 2023)
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To: Glad2bnuts
The second punch thrown makes you the loser. If you make the decision that you are being bullied. Set him up for first blow.

100% correct. If you are going to take down a bully, you must throw the first punch. That is the only way. Bullies don't expect receiving the first punch as for them, it is always the other way around.

75 posted on 05/02/2023 4:48:12 PM PDT by SamAdams76 (5,181,324 Truth | 87,174,230 Twitter)
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To: New Perspective
YOU were the one who said the parents were not doing enough.

Not what I said.

Post 59:I can think of 2 things they could have done, go to the local paper, get a lawyer. Suing a school district is lucrative. The parents let the lefties bully them.

I defended them, you didn’t.

My last post to you as you are taking this waaaay too personally. Why do you think they need defending? I simply suggested things they could have done and there are a load more. Some people are passive....and some aren't.

As I said, you are taking my suggestions waaay too personally. Bye.

76 posted on 05/02/2023 7:52:07 PM PDT by DJ MacWoW (The Fed Gov is not one ring to rule them all)
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To: Fiji Hill

Exactly and now he has some street cred.


77 posted on 05/03/2023 2:24:09 PM PDT by Mean Daddy (Every time Hillary lies, a demon gets its wings. - Windflier)
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