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2. Contacting my daughter’s employer about her affair
Ask a Manager ^ | 12-9-22 | Alison Green

Posted on 12/09/2022 6:57:37 AM PST by Brookhaven

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To: yetidog

Neighborhood learning schools instead of massive dysfunctional high schools; teachers with under-and-postgraduate disciplines in the fields they teach instead of education degrees; sports clubs instead of teams. Better pay and credentialing for teachers....and the list goes on.


41 posted on 12/09/2022 9:42:28 AM PST by yetidog
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To: drwoof
Yep....he needs to walk away from her as it will most assuredly happen again - she's twice now...don't let it be three.
42 posted on 12/09/2022 9:42:30 AM PST by caww (O death, when you seized my Lord, you lost your grip on me......Augustine)
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To: yetidog

Neighborhood learning schools instead of massive dysfunctional high schools; teachers with under-and-postgraduate disciplines in the fields they teach instead of education degrees; sports clubs instead of teams. Better pay and credentialing for teachers....and the list goes on.


43 posted on 12/09/2022 9:44:08 AM PST by yetidog
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To: Brookhaven

Why is her husband even let her work? A real man provides for his family and the little lady stays home to take care of the home and children.


44 posted on 12/09/2022 9:44:51 AM PST by PatriotarchyQ
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To: SheepWhisperer
I was fortunate in that after I lost my husband a male friend took me to a lounge to show me what the bar scene was about. Just watching people you learn real quick especially once the alcohol kicks in. By midnight the guys don't care what the gals look like as long as they can take them home and put a bag over their faces....is true!
45 posted on 12/09/2022 9:49:19 AM PST by caww (O death, when you seized my Lord, you lost your grip on me......Augustine)
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To: Brookhaven
In my opinion, that is a marriage not worth saving. The husband was willing to give her a pass on the affair and work things out. Then very next day, she moves in with the guy she was having an affair with.

Poor guy needs to cut his losses and move on.

46 posted on 12/09/2022 9:55:39 AM PST by SamAdams76 (4,712,890 | Truth Social | 87,865,341 | Twitter | Trump Followers)
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To: Brookhaven
1. Your daughter is a slut.

2. The only correct course of action for her husband is to divorce her. If he does anything else he is an idiot.

47 posted on 12/09/2022 9:59:10 AM PST by GaryCrow
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To: GaryCrow

Cut the daughter out of the will, adopt the husband, leave everything to him.


48 posted on 12/09/2022 10:09:28 AM PST by Farmerbob
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To: Disambiguator

“Husband should just get a divorce and move on. There is no marriage to salvage. The wife has shown her true colors.”

Agree. Get out now, bud. There is happiness down the road for you, so escape while you can.


49 posted on 12/09/2022 10:12:03 AM PST by Old Grumpy
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To: Brookhaven

The daughter is old enough to be married, work, and decide to have an affair. Not the parent’s business.


50 posted on 12/09/2022 10:17:34 AM PST by Vermont Lt
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To: caww

He did you a favor in showing this, while presumably shielding you from harm.

I have to get out of the house 2-3 nights each week, because being single even with my FABULOUS dog who loves me, can get boring and miss right isn’t exactly going to randomly knock on my front door.

When I do go out, I leave before the alcohol in people’s brains switches to crazy, or rude, usually by 9pm.

Sorry to read of your loss. May your future be joy.


51 posted on 12/09/2022 10:34:31 AM PST by SheepWhisperer ("Stone is heavy and sand a burden, but the provocations of a fool are heavier than both" PRO 27:3)
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To: txeagle

LOL! Lactation rooms. Between 2002 and maybe 2006, it was the new fad in our area. My boss, the HR Director, was going to put me in charge of implementing the project.

The look on my face made her change her mind ASAP, and when I rolled my eyes I was called into her office about being a team player. (I’m not a team player. I’d never said I was a team player.)

In staff meeting when I said they should stay home and take care of their kids, once again she was unhappy.

I HATED THAT JOB!


52 posted on 12/09/2022 12:31:33 PM PST by MayflowerMadam
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To: Brookhaven

The husband needs to Inform the company via lawsuit.
Serve them at both at the same time she is being served for divorce.
Burn the b*tch up.


53 posted on 12/09/2022 1:14:34 PM PST by Right Brigade (It was better before they voted for whats his name,this must be the New World)
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To: Right Brigade

Serve them at both at the same time she is being served for divorce.
Burn the b*tch up.

nah wait till divorce settlement is done if she isnt working he loses


54 posted on 12/09/2022 1:24:02 PM PST by rolling_stone (cry havoc and let slip the dogs of war )
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To: Brookhaven
She has always had a strong working ethic and went to college for human resources.

I had a class full of HR types once. Worst class ever.

It's one thing to be dumb, but not to know it?

55 posted on 12/09/2022 1:43:40 PM PST by Mr.Unique (My boss wants me to sign up for a 401K. No way I'm running that far! )
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To: MayflowerMadam
I'll never forget the time I had to counsel to employees who couldn't get along together. Supervisors routinely dumped those kinds of problems on my doorstep because they didn't want to get involved.

I put them in a conference room and told them they had 10 minutes to come up with a joint solution and if they didn't, neither one was going to like mine.

Within 5 minutes, my phone was blowing up with supervisors and managers informing me I was being too hard on the poor babies.

I ended up telling them that if they didn't like that solution, my fallback plan, derived from my years in the military, was to have them do pushups until they threw up.....it was their choice. Never did get an educated alternative from those supposedly in charge.

56 posted on 12/09/2022 4:06:53 PM PST by txeagle
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LOL — call the employer — nothing like unleashing a well-deserved sh*t-storm


57 posted on 12/09/2022 4:41:51 PM PST by Gene Eric (Don't be a statist!)
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To: qam1

HR & Teaching degrees are the easiest to obtain in any university system. I went back to school about 20 years ago & the university wanted me to get an HR degree because most courses will apply to it. Told them I wanted a marketable degree.


58 posted on 12/09/2022 6:27:21 PM PST by Mean Daddy (Every time Hillary lies, a demon gets its wings. - Windflier)
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To: Disambiguator

Yep. End of discussion.


59 posted on 12/09/2022 9:20:11 PM PST by HeadOn (Love God. Lead your family. Be a man.)
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To: SheepWhisperer
Well my friend knew I was naive about the bar scene having not been a part of it prior so i was glad he walked me through it. He, like you, also recommended you leave before the “Witching Hour” as he called it. Which I always was out of there by 11:00.

Keep in mind the only bars i went to were ‘Keroki Lounges” who featured hosts with the best systems as they attracted a better crowd. People with real talent would show up where the systems were the best. I really enjoyed the ‘live’ entertainment and you got to know the ‘regulars’ over time.....who had true talent.

60 posted on 12/10/2022 4:01:17 AM PST by caww (O death, when you seized my Lord, you lost your grip on me......Augustine)
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