Posted on 12/28/2021 3:54:55 PM PST by conservative98
In this video, a man asks for a way out of a marriage with a single mom with 3 kids from 2 different fathers.
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Any guy who hooks up with a woman with a history like that is asking for trouble, plain and simple.
“trmporary”
I’m just gonna go ahead and make a minor spelling correction, here, and give you full credit for coining the much-needed, context-appropriate term “tramporary.”
Tramporary: an honest voice texting error.
I think I have developed a lisp when a front tooth broke off and an acrylic cap was affixed.
I don’t think it is possible but I might have been an early user of the term liarrhea. I attribute that to a descriptor I once used for a pathological liar called my oldest sister...
true dat.
Been through it.
Did anyone listen to this? He was the dumpster fire, an overweight, broke 24 year old who latched onto a 36 year old so she could raise him into a successful adult. Looks like she did pretty well, except he seems whiny because nobody appreciates him.
Well now he has a daughter to raise with her. The other kids will be adults in a few years. Looks to me like she doesn’t deserve him.
They married when he was 23-24. They would have met earlier and she had 3 kids from two different dads. Most 21-22 year olds are broke. He lost weight, got a job and bought her a hair salon. He got disrespect and 4 children. That’s about all.
Yours was the first intelligent analysis. He makes her sound like a gold digger, but in the telling, he sounds like a superficial jerk, as does the advisor.
The best that can happen for the children in this situation is that they both feel trapped enough and at sufficient risk if they part that they actually sit down and work hard at fixing things. The counselor repeatedly sounds like having to work hard on a relationship is some kind of unfair thing. A pox on both these males, and her past poor judgment.
I’d still like to hear her side of it.
Thank you. He struck me as very whiny and superficial. Now that he’s achieved his goals he wants to cut the sugar mama loose.
Complaining about the 13 and 14 year old stepsons being disrespectful, lol. Welcome to reality. What child that age isn’t disrespectful?
Marrying a single mother is almost always a mistake.
She already divorced one guy, showing her disdain for marriage vows, and disenfranchised him from his family.
Any new guy who marries her can expect the same fate.
Never pet a shark that just ate a human.
LOL.
She didn’t earn anything.
Well, my advice starts with “Slip out the back jack...” then make a new plan Stan........
The problem is all inside your head
She said to me
The answer is easy if you
Take it logically
I’d like to help you in your struggle
To be free
There must be fifty ways
To leave your lover
She said it’s really not my habit
To intrude
Furthermore, I hope my meaning
Won’t be lost or misconstrued
But I’ll repeat myself
At the risk of being crude
There must be fifty ways
To leave your lover
Fifty ways to leave your lover
You Just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don’t need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don’t need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free
You Just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don’t need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don’t need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free
She said it grieves me so
To see you in such pain
I wish there was something I could do
To make you smile again
I said I appreciate that
And would you please explain
About the fifty ways
She said why don’t we both
Just sleep on it tonight
And I believe in the morning
You’ll begin to see the light
And then she kissed me
And I realized she probably was right
There must be fifty ways
To leave your lover
Fifty ways to leave your lover
You Just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don’t need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don’t need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free
You Just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don’t need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don’t need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free
So you’re claiming this guy supported her, her kids and put himself through school without any help from her?
Even though he was the fat, broke and evicted one 8 years ago?
If he got any help from her it wasn’t worth it and she preyed on a young inexperienced guy. He was anywhere from 19-22 when they met.
She was getting paid from two other men. He had an excuse for being “broke” as he was only in his early 20s.
Didn’t say he went to college. He just says he didn’t have an education when they met and he was broke. Never said she paid for college or that he event went to college.
He says in the comments he made money getting into real estate with friends.
She has a salon that he bought her.
One does not “make” money in real estate unless one has money to invest. Where did Mr. Young, Fat and Broke get his seed money? By shacking up with Sugar Momma, free rent, free food and the other dads child support.
Not saying she’s an innocent angel, but he made certain trade-offs to get where he is and now he wants to trade up.
Got no problem with that, but pretending he was taken advantage of is BS. No adult gets involved with anyone 12 years their senior without playing the sugar angle.
He’s whiny, entitled and still trying to play helpless. Give me a break. He said he helped her get the salon, where she is making 100K a year, which means she is a hard worker and obviously good at it.
He invested with friends. She wasn’t a sugar mom. She wasn’t making money and had 3 kids to feed.
Where did he get money? Working. He says he was getting up at 6am every day for a job. Then used that money to invest in real estate with friends. Some of you all are reading into not having an education meaning she put him through some supposed college (he didn’t even say he even went to college.) And she was a sugar mom? How? By getting money from two other men and a job at Walmart? He needed none of this trainwreck into his life in his 20s just because he was overweight and had a bad hairdo. The men here simping for this single mom here is appalling.
Use some logic. She had a place to live and he didn’t. He started from zero under her roof and at her table. She did have income, child support for 3 kids and whatever she earned as a hairdresser and the really good ones make as much as a plumber.
You’re manipulating the facts. Yes, he was overweight and broke at first but as he got healthy, educated and successful. That wasn’t his motivation for wanting out. It’s her who’s changed, becoming financially solvent in her own right (with his help) and simply has less reason to depend on him financially. So the pretext of her actually loving him is no longer needed, he has much more to lose in a divorce than she does and she’s very aware of this.
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